When we win, it’s skill. When we lose, it’s luck, or the weather. We’re angry. We blame our luck on everyone: parents, clients, partners—except us. Sometimes, it is about forgiveness. Are you forgiving yourself enough? It is easy to blame others for how we ended up. Self-serving biases are defense mechanisms. It is easier to walk with surrender. You cannot write good on the grounds of grudge. Most of life is luck. Sometimes a banana is just a banana. It’s not your mom, Karen. Get on with your life.